Saturday, October 07, 2006
Public Service Announcement
I have heard so many complaints, mostly from my mom, that I don't talk and tell people what is going on in my life. It's not that I don't want to tell you what's going on, it's that one of two things generally happens. One- you are so busy telling me about what's going on in your neck of the woods that we run out of time. Or Two- I start to tell you, only to be cut off by my delightful neice or because you have thought of something else you want to tell me or because you have to chase or tickle or otherwise tease your grandchildren. And then you wonder why I am aggitated!!! I spend over 40 hours a week listening to other people's problems and trying help them. And then I visit my Family and listen to them and their problems. I love my job- helping people is a wonderful way to spend your day, and I am glad that I can be there to let my family members vent- I know how important that is. But sometimes, sometimes(!), I need someone to listen to me!!!!! Without interuption!!!
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3 comments:
Nice try. I always ask you questions about what is going on in your life and you always give a BS answer. I noticed a long time ago that I do all the talking when you visit and I'm not comfortable with that but you always refuse when given a chance. I am rarely at Mom's house, so you can't always use your delightful neice as an excuse to hide your life. Since I don't usually go to Mom's then stay over there and you can chat up a storm without having to compete with my children. Viola! No annoying problems to have to listen to either.
Steph I think you took this the wrong way, I think it was mainly aimed at me....especially the part about my grandchildren interrupting our consversations.
I still think you are making excuses. If you have problems and you want to discuss them-PICK UP THE PHONE! You know, call someone and talk. Or just say something when you get here(or to Mom's), you know, issue a warning that you have something on your mind you'd like to discuss. I'm pretty sure no one would say, No,I need to talk about myself. And if Mom knew you were planning on talking, I think she'd try much harder to pay attention to you.
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